Lots of people around here in Maryland have “Choose Civility” bumper stickers.
I was listening to NPR a few months ago, and they had a black American woman discussing her trip to Paris. She said she was surprised that people in France got angry at her for trying to cut in line at the move theater, because she could always get away with it in the US. Her point was that white Americans are afraid to criticize black people.
That unique American madness is what causes 70% of Democrats to continue supporting a black man who is destroying their children’s future. Choosing civility is fine, and needs to be associated with expectations of civility from everyone else. Without those expectations, the country is doomed to insanity.